Pray.
Just tell
God what's in your heart. He knows it anyway. However, as you pray, you
will begin
to see yourself more clearly. Prayer opens up a powerful door to heaven.
Awesome changes will begin to happen and the burdens will slowly lift.
1 Kings 8:52, Ps. 6:9, 65:2,
88:1-2, 102:17, Matt. 7:7-8, Luke 18:1
Seek God.
God wants you to want Him more than you want your marriage
restored. Your transformation will come when you seek an
encounter with God for who He is, not simply to fix your
circumstances.
2 Sam. 22:33, Ps. 119:18,
27:11, 73:24, Jer. 6:16, John 8:12, James 1:5-6
Let God's Word
infiltrate your life.
God will change you. Stop blaming others and making excuses. We,
alone, are responsible for how we act - and react - to situations. No
one can make us do or act a specific way. Get to the point where you are
tired of being unhappy because of what someone else is doing!
James 4:17, 2:17-18, 1:22,
Prov. 2:2, 22:17, 23:12
Always, always check your
motives! God looks at your heart. Do not do anything out of selfishness
or with expectations from anyone but God. He is the only one who
promises never to let us down.
James 4:2-3, 1 Chron. 28:9,
Prov. 16:2, 1Cor. 4:5
Let go, and let God.
Disconnect yourself from your wayward spouse. Do not let what they
do/don't do, say/don't say determine your own attitudes or
emotions. You may have to do this many
times, but make it a continuous surrender to His Will.
Phil. 1:6, 4:19, 1 Tim. 4:4,
Romans 8:28
